There is no rule that says one needs Titanium Dioxide. Lead would work as well to turn things white, but Lead is kind of a nasty chemical.
One can use a dye to make things darker, but one cannot dye something lighter. And that's basically the issue. The dyes only affect the light spectrum you can see and have little effect on the 940nm light the sensor uses.
I did find one source for an IR transmissive white material.
If you are dead set on it, have a look at:
https://www.tokaioptical.com/en/product14/
I have NOT used their stuff, but I did have one customer who tried it.
We do sell an evaluation kit. It's pretty inexpensive too.
P-Nucleo-53L4A2 would be the part number for the VL53L4CX.
And P-Nucleo-53L1A1 would be the part number for the VL53L1X.
To go that 2Meters and through plastic, I'd recommend the VL53L4CX with it's 18 degree Field of View, or the VL53L1X. The L1X is a little more expensive, but it's easy to use.