Hi @mlytvyn
(assuming that when you talk about qSPI EEPROM, it is in fact Serial-NOR-Flash)
Performance largely depend on the flash itself (brand, model, mode, etc...).
NAND has usually advantage on write speed Vs NOR. Serial-NOR is expensive especially on large densities (but NOR is often seen as much reliable).
SLC NAND is much larger package and use many pins, but usually lower cost than Serial-NAND (price sweet spot depend on density). For large densities (>2Gbytes), eMMC is usually cheaper.
There is no black and white choice as this depend on your application priorities. If you are running small quantities, eMMC is usually less headache to get it up and running as much more standardized (JEDEC).
Regards.