To ease your work, you will find some ready-made Altium projects in STM32MP15x Series DDR memory routing guidelines examples as well as an excel file for each package to check DDR length Vs guidelines (including length skew introduced by package).
Component placement, DDR routing, PCB stack-up and layer usage are very complex stuff and you should carefully prepare the job to avoid painful PCB rework afterward.
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